Heaven on earth

Everything we go through in life is making us trapped in thinking that if something is good it always have to be that good and if something is bad it always have to be that bad.

But here's the truth, this is life and we will always experience the duality of life. The good and the bad. In periods of time, or at the same time perhaps. It will always make room for each other because that is what we are here for on earth, to endulge in this experience to be alive in the situations we are in.

This one goes out for me aswell, but I meet a lot of people that are stuck in the thinking that their hardships and traumas in life are what they are bound to take along with them through the rest of the life. Like the feelings you have towards your trauma is what you are always relating to. It doen't have to be this difficult to experience life. If my trauma from my adolescence for example made me feel so bad, I don't have to carry the feeling of my adolescence being 100% bad because my traumas were created there. If you had a bad experience in relationships, you do not have to think all relationships are going to be bad. Or even more, your relationship were not even 100% bad otherwise you wouldn't be in it. But, it is recognizing the duality that is important for us to grow as human beings.

You are not entitled to cling on to what hurt you, broke you, hit you and so on. Did you have a family tie that were toxic? Then I want to say there were good times to, even though you don't remember it. We suppress whatevers hard for us to handle, but if we do that we hurt ourselves instead and we will have even more issues to heal from.

Hardships is prob my favorite word right now. We all have them and we all go through them in different parts of life. I see the word hardship as a struggle and an issue we have to deal with in order to come through on the other side of the challenge. Its all a part of the healing, to grow through what you go through. Just because we are dealing with what we believe is an issue for us we also need to realize that its the hard parts in life that "ships" us forward to the right parts in life. This is no one situation thing, we will keep on experiencing these situations since we are here to heal and to grow as souls on our journey.

Otherwise, why would we even be here if we had no work to do?

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